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Studying Epitaphs; Writing Eulogies


By Kahlo R. F. Smith

My earliest playground reminiscences are set in cemeteries, chasing my brother round household plots and peering via every crypt’s ornate grating. Dad hoped he might preserve us from fearing loss of life by making cemeteries websites of pleasure. 

His experiment didn’t work on me, but it surely did instill a deep love for graveyards. My first cemetery story, written in seventh grade, sprang from a reminiscence of selecting flowers for the small headstones of the youngsters’s part. I laid stems on graves and imagined the wind whirring via pinwheels was the ghost of a lady my age. 

Graveyards make writing simple. If you happen to’ve ever struggled to call a personality, attempt strolling amongst headstones—you’ll meet the proper individual. 

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There’s extra to a gravestone than a reputation, after all. Epitaphs are a distinct segment style, however a very good one engraves itself on our minds simply because it’s carved into the stone. You’ve in all probability heard some well-known examples: “I had a lover’s quarrel with the world,” Robert Frost’s grave proclaims. “Go away,” reads Joan Hackett’s. A private favourite, from Reno’s Our Woman of Sorrows Catholic Cemetery: “Ehh-Ohh.” So concise! 

Simply being in a graveyard can generate concepts. They’re liminal areas suffused with ambiance, bridging the worlds of the residing and the useless, and so they’re additionally filled with glimpses into personal moments of grief. A decades-old grave nonetheless ringed with contemporary flowers. A Raiders flag draped over a gravestone. A toddler’s Lightning McQueen quote epitaph. If this tangible proof of human connection doesn’t make you need to write, respectfully, nothing will. So how are you going to use cemeteries in your individual artistic course of?

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Subsequent time you’ve gotten the urge to get exterior and write, seek for native graveyards. Reno has some hauntingly pretty cemeteries, although Virginia Metropolis is healthier identified for them. My private favourite is Hillside Cemetery on Nevada Road. The gate is often open, and it’s a historic cemetery relationship again to the mid-1800s, filled with unassuming older graves. The Hillside Cemetery Preservation Basis writes up indicators that inform the tales of individuals and households entombed there. Sit on one of many benches and speak to ghosts for some time. 

Lastly, think about using the graveyard as a break out of your writing observe. Typically you want a relaxed house to domesticate the much less product-driven components of your identification—and generally that house is a graveyard.

Photographs courtesy of Kahlo R. F. Smith.


Kahlo R. F. Smith (she/it) was born within the redwoods of Felton, CA and is pursuing an MFA in Fiction at UNR. Her work has haunted Luna Station Quarterly, Final Ladies Membership, and Trembling With Worry. When not looking Bigfoot or navigating catacombs, it may be discovered on Instagram @vellumgarden or at kahlosmith.wordpress.com.

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